Driving into a Hidden Valley...

You're reading this post because something about driving into a Hidden Valley allowed you to daydream, to look out of a nearby window and wander into mother nature. If you've already visited us here at the Ranch you can surely picture what this time of year has to offer the wanderer...lush greens under the canopy's of oak, palm, fruit, and pine trees, blossoming roses still wet from the mornings dew, rain filled fountains trickling and plunking their way down into the dense dirt paths meandering throughout the eleven acre garden...my list is endless, but you wanderer's already have a list of your own Ranch favorites so I'll move on :) For those of you reading this post that have yet to visit us, take a tour at hiddenvalleyspa.com and get your time penciled in to come wander...
I titled this post "driving into Hidden Valley" because every day I drive home (my husband Ian and I are the new caretakers here on the Ranch) I feel like I get to escape into a hidden gem, driving along roads adorned with red and yellow leaves, homes decorated for the season, rolling hills and roaming animals...I just wanted to motivate others to allow for a little wandering to creep into your day, I think it keeps us youthful :) I'll post pictures within the next few days to better introduce myself and get ya'll caught up with life on the Ranch!

Another Beautiful Wedding at Hidden Valley Retreat!

Well, it looks like everyone had a good time at our latest wedding here...

and that party was just beginning!

Check back soon for pictures of the FREE WEDDING we are giving away this very weekend!

9/12/09

The weather is looking like it is holding up for us all - what a surprise for San Diego! - but should make for some gorgeous shots of the wedding party and surroundings.

Family Reunion at the Ranch

We recently rented out the estate to a family and they
had some wonderful things to say about their stay!

"Our family has enjoyed our week here and have been very blessed to be together.
Each one was able to find things to enjoy no matter what the age!"

"I was just recently proposed to and was then able to join this amazing family
here for the sixty year anniversary & family reunion. It has been amazing and I now
know that this is where I belong. Thanks for letting us stay the week here. It has
been a great experience!"

"This place has been wonderful and has given our family a great experience and MANY
memories to last forever!"

Another bunch of happy customers!

July at the Ranch

We recently had the NGLTF,(www.thetaskforce.org), for a week at the retreat to figure out their plans for the upcoming year. You have probably seen their progress in the news. They had a wonderful stay! Here are a few things they had to say about their time spent:

“Everything you did for all of us was incredible! Thanks for taking such good care of us!”

“What a delightful experience, thanks for your hospitality.”

“Thanks for making a space for us to do so much good thinking, playing, and planning!”

“I’m so glad we got to come back to the BEST retreat site we’ve ever been to! The food was incredible every day, and the accommodations and grounds are just beautiful. Thanks for having us.”

Speaking of the food, they asked for our chili recipe that we made for them, and though we wanted to keep it secret, we realized that was selfish, so here it is.

Arlene and Kate’s Chili

Ground beef (5 lbs.)
White onion, chopped (two)
Minced garlic (probably 10 cloves)
Diced tomatoes (huge can)
Tomato paste (can)
Tomatoes chopped by hand (3 big ones)
Chili powder (1 cup)
Ketchup (5 or 6 count squeeze)
Olive oil (1/2 cup)
Balsamic vinegar (2 tbs)
Red wine vinegar (2 tbs)
Kidney beans (3 small cans, 1 large can, or however many you like)
Chopped jalapenos (at LEAST three, but to taste)
Sliced jalapenos (can you handle it?!)
Corn (frozen bag)
Salt (to taste)
Black pepper (like 4 tbs)
Green bell pepper (one, chopped!)
Sugar (1/2 cup, seriously)

Combine.




Just kidding. Begin with cooking the ground beef in a sauce-like pot. Treat this first part as if you are making an extremely meaty meat sauce. Add the olive oil, salt, black pepper, white onion, and half of the minced garlic. Cook this up until it smells really good and your neighbors start dropping by unexpectedly. Add the tomato paste, chopped tomatoes, ketchup, and diced tomatoes. Perhaps you want to add some more meat at this point, perhaps not. We let this simmer for hours and hours while adding the rest of the ingredients in when we felt like it. We believe that you will have the same success with this tactic. Make sure you taste it as you go, or else! This recipe can feed anywhere from two to sixteen people, depending.

*If you have any emergencies, feel free to call us. Please keep in mind the time difference.

Summer Has Arrived!

Our blog activity has been quiet, of late, because we have been recuperating from the mad rush and flurry of activity that preceeded the May 30th Bridal Fair and Open House. Since that successful day, spring headed out the door, and summer was ushered in. Typical of the low-lying coastal regions of San Diego, May Gray and June Gloom have been dampening the spirits of many unsuspecting tourists. Fortunately, what all of this precipitation and humidity means is that the surrounding hills and magnificent fields of San Diego County have yet to turn from emerald green to velvety brown. Up at the Hidden Valley, the dense clouds of marine layer tend to break earlier in the morning, and a warm sun marches across the sky for a majority of the day.

Since the spring, we have continued to make upgrades to our property and its facilities. We are also eagerly awaiting the September nuptials of Eric and Marie, our lovely contest winners from Montana. However, the Hidden Valley is a popular venue that is fully-booked for the remainder of these summer days. Our guests include the Gay and Lesbian Task Force to family reunions and small weddings. Only two weeks ago, the Hidden Valley Retreat and Spa welcomed the Healing Gardens of Orange County, an Ayurvedic, natural health and healing organization that presented a Panchakarma Retreat. During their stay, guests were encouraged to relax and unwind amidst our nature spa's peace and tranquility with sunrise yoga, natural foods, personalized therapies, live music chanting, meditation, and more.

We look forward to hosting more of these events, as well as yours. If there is anything that we can do for you, then please let us know. Otherwise, we look forward to seeing you up at the Hidden Valley, - a treasure trove that is waiting to be discovered by you!

Bridal Fair Follow Up, continued...

Last Saturday's Bridal Fair was a smashing success!
A HUGE Thank You to all of our participating sponsors and wedding contestants for helping to make the afternoon memorable, and fun, for all involved.
Clickery Photography, of Oceanside, was on-hand to capture the laughter-filled moments. Please, enjoy the Bridal Fair via photographs in the posts that follow.
And, stay tuned for more to be posted soon.

The Winners of Our Dream Wedding Giveaway...

Eric and Marie of Billings, Montana



Congratulations to our Lucky Couple!

We look forward to hosting your wedding nuptials at the Hidden Valley.

The Hidden Valley Retreat and Spa Bridal Fair and Open House in Photographs!

The outdoor ceremony site for our
September 12th, 2009, dream wedding giveaway.

Our handcrafted pergola was designed using only

organic, raw materials by our very own caretaker and artesian,

Ron Henson.

Hidden Valley Retreat and Spa Bridal Fair and Open House in Photos!

Who Wants to Win a Wedding????
"We Do!!!!"

A Bridal Fair Follow-Up: The Lovely May Day Was A Smashing Success

Steps leading up to the Main House

Last Saturday's Bridal Fair and Open House at the Hidden Valley proved to be a fun and exciting afternoon, - for all involved. Although the skies were gray and drizzly around both the city proper and low lying outskirts of San Diego, there were patches of blue sky to be found up the winding mountain roads east of Escondido.

On this day, the Hidden Valley was an oasis of casual cool and comfortable clouds. Over the course of these past few months, the Hidden Valley Retreat and Spa has seen some major upgrades. An outdoor stage, made of solely organic materials, was built and erected. Land was leveled, terraces were seeded and watered, and a green aisle leading from a dirt road up to the altar was laid. All in preparation of this day's festivities.

Our participating vendors, including Hair and Makeup Artistry by Melanie, Always and Forever Carriage Company, STS Invitations, So Belle, Music As You Like It, and Reverend Pat Borsum, all rolled in early to set up their booths within the Event Center gallery. The wedding contestants and Bridal Fair guests were next to follow.

Ariana and Matt

The small assembled crowd was the perfect size for really diving into the events of the day. In the Event Center Forum, Party Hats Entertainment had set up a decorating station while Elliot Lawrence serenaded us all with his lovely acoustic, cocktail jazz. At one point, the gallery was empty and the forum was full, - of vendors, contestants, and guests alike, all clamoring to create an award-winning hat and bowtie ensemble.

Carolyn and Mike

An hour later, wedding contestants were cajoled into parading around the Event Center gallery while showing off their Party Hat creations. Although Nathaniel really knew how to strike a pose, and Carolyn and Mike two-stepped around the wood floor, it was Zeolah and Alex who won the 10-person Party in a Hat Box gift for their silly stroll, which included Zeolah talking on her cell phone and Alex dipping Zoi in a final pose. Tonya with Indulge Catering pulled up just in the nick of time, and we all headed down to the outdoor stage and ceremony site next.

The Grooms

There, the brides were corralled and the grooms were posted to their positions of waiting at the altar. The brides were spun around in tight, little circles for ten seconds and then they were off! They made a mad dash for the altar. Along the way, they stopped at different stations (where they had to put on: gloves; a large, white crinolin skirt; a garter; and chocolate flavored lipgloss). Then, they rushed up to their respective grooms and laid a kiss on his lips. The first bride and groom to be photographed won this "Rush to the Altar" race. Yet again, Zeolah and Alex took home the prize, - an engagement photo shoot with Kellerman photography.

Zeolah rushes to the altar

Finally, the moment we had all been waiting for was upon us. With so many wonderful couples to choose from, including Ariana and Matt, Jennifer and Jason, Micheli and Richard, Marie and Eric, Rosella and Rudy, Chelsea and Nathaniel, and Zeolah and Alex, we were certainly hard-pressed to choose only one couple to win our "Who Wants to Win a Wedding?" contest.

In the end, we chose Marie and Eric of Billings, Montana, to receive our
September 12th, 2009 dream wedding. Eric's story of persistence in the face of loss inspired us. And, we hoped that his and Marie's non-local residence would provide opportunities for our participating vendors. We are really looking forward to hosting their wedding nuptials at our hillside paradise.
Chelsea and Nathaniel

We also chose Chelsea and Nathaniel, a local Valley Center couple, as our runners-up. They received a 50% Gift Certificate to be applied to their wedding weekend at the Hidden Valley. For their participation and willingness to entertain, all of our attending wedding contestants received a $1,000.00 gift certificate to be applied towards their wedding weekend at the Hidden Valley.

Rosella and Rudy

Jenny and Jason

Micheli and Richard

Three More Days and Counting...

Find out which lucky couple wins our dream wedding giveaway this Saturday, May 30th, at the Hidden Valley Retreat and Spa.

Only 8,650 Miles to Love - Couple #27

8,650 miles is the combined distance that it took Micheli to leave her hometown in Rio de Janeiro, Brazil, and Richard his Baltimore, Maryland, upbringing, before cupid united these two at a Valentine's Day party in Los Angeles.


Cupid was quite literally a grown man wearing red, furry wings and a giant diaper, and his arrow was not initially striking at this Chinatown affair. The "Lock and Key" party proved to be a dud. Failing to find a spark with their counterparts wearing their matching key or lock, Micheli grew quickly frustrated and accosted the cherubic party host. He promised to find her a match.

Fortunately for Richard, he knew the man playing Cupid and he just so happened to be talking to him when Micheli walked by. Cupid grabbed her arm and exclaimed, "I have the perfect guy for you." Then he swung her around to face Richard.

It didn't take long before these two acted on what they knew from that very first moment, - that they are perfect for each other and that it was time to get hitched! As Richard says, "Winning the "Who Wants to Win a Wedding?" contest would be the perfect way to bring our far-flung friends and family together."

A Horse and Carriage Ride for the Bride

Always and Forever Carriage Company will be providing our lucky bride with a horse drawn ride into our outdoor ceremony site on September 12th, 2009.
Need we type more????

Find out which lucky couple wins this wonderful prize at our Bridal Faire on Saturday, May 30th, from 12-4pm at the Hidden Valley Retreat and Spa.
We can't wait!

Couple #26 - Love In the Time of Childhood

Melissa and her military man met for the very first time when she was just 7-years old. He was her step-dad's nephew and, although his family moved around the country quite a bit, his and Melissa's mutual interest in one another was ignited with every encounter. However, it was not until the age of fifteen, when they were dance partners in her stepsister's "quinceanera," that these two children became close. With his family's move back to Miami, the young lovebirds not only become close, but they also became inseparable.

After years of moving, dating others, and the typical turbulences that accompany most adolescent years, these two were finally united here in San Diego, at Camp Pendleton. On September 12th, 2006, they married. There was no horse and carriage, or other memorable morsels to remember their commitment ceremony by. Rather, six-months later, Melissa was pregnant and her husband was shipped off for two back-to-back deployments. Finally, last summer, he returned and the happy family has been living together as a single unit since. Melissa is now hoping to win the wedding that she has always dreamed of. Good luck to couple #26!!

It Is Almost Time...

to announce the winners of our coveted dream wedding giveaway!

We are hoping that you are well rested after the long weekend and ready for our
Intimate Bridal Faire & Open House, up at the Hidden Valley, this Saturday,
May 30th, from 12-4pm. We have crafted an afternoon of activities, ideas, and fun, for planning your perfect nuptial day.

Stay tuned for more information leading up to this exciting event. I will also be posting more formal driving directions before then.

A Hint of Contemporary Sophistication

A Touch d'Elegance will be providing all of the decor for our September 12th nuptials. From linens and chair covers to centerpieces and candleabras, A Touch d'Elegance brings a sophisticated flair and an inspired atmosphere to any event.

Got Wedding Cake?

The French Gourmet has kindly donated the wedding cake for our lucky "Who Wants to Win a Wedding?" contest winners' September 12th nuptials. The 30-year old catering company makes its wedding cakes from scratch. The French Gourment is attuned to the bride and groom's needs and desires, and only uses fresh, natural ingredients. The end result is a delectable taste, and a stylish center piece for any wedding reception.

Thank You, The French Gourmet!

Couple #25 - A bartender, a hostess, and two dogs later...

Megan and Armand met over six years ago while working at a Marie Callendar's. He was a bartender, she was a hostess, and the sparks flew. Since that time, these two have enjoyed spending time with each other as well as with their two dogs, Ginger and Stinky Pete. They are outdoor enthusiasts who love camping, skiing, and traveling. Although they are 100% ready to spend the rest of their lives together, their engagement has now stretched on for two-and-a-half years. This young couple feels torn between being financially responsible and having an enjoyable celebration for their family and friends. Winning this dream wedding contest would relieve a lot of the financial burden as well as stress associated with planning a wedding.

Couple #24 Finding Love on the World Wide Web

Jacque had posted a personal ad on myspace, - she was looking for a sweet and romantic man. Troy responded and though he had been married before he had never been in love. This time around, he says that Jacque makes him want to be a better man. She adores his doting affection and his chivalrous actions, while he loves the way they laugh and always have fun together. "We can have fun in any situation," he says. "We can walk to the grocery store at 11pm and laugh the whole way there and back."

These two lovebirds have been inseparable since last Halloween and, this year, Troy proposed. "He gets down on bended knee, and proposes everyday," Jacque writes. Jacque and Troy both believe that they deserve this fairy tale wedding because "we are what legends are made of, - our love will never fade or break."

Couple #23 - A Shining Example of the Strength of Vows and Commitment

Latisha and Scott's love story has been a serious lesson in perseverance. After seven years of marriage, Latisha grew tired of being rejected by Scott's family as well as Scott's refusal to stand up for both her and their children. So, she left him, - just like that. However, it must have been the wake up call that Scott needed because, eleven months later, he came back around. Only, this time, he was there physically as well as spiritually and emotionally. The break-up was exactly what he needed to realize that he had been failing at the most important aspects of marriage, - he had not been a partner or a friend throughout all those early years together.
Latisha, on the other hand, was not sure if she wanted to reconcile, but she was always a person who believed in second chances. So, this couple of old started attending marriage counseling sessions and, little by little, Latisha's passion started making a come back. Love was reborn, anew.
Unfortunately, tragedy struck again. This time in the form of cervical cancer but Scott was there, every step of the way. He proved, once and for all, that he is Latisha's life long rock. These two have weathered the serious storms that all marriages can bring with them. Yet, they never had the pleasure of celebrating their big day with a special wedding ceremony. Now, Latisha thinks its time.

Couple #22 - Six Beautiful, Strong Years

For these two, love came early. It was in high school where their relationship blossomed. He remembers that very first day. What she was wearing, and how he thought, "This is going to be a good year." In Algebra class, they would fight for the teacher's attention, meanwhile she would secretly stare at him in a daze.

It has been six years since these first fateful days. "Six beautiful, and strong years," Andrea says. Now, it has been over a year since he first proposed and the idea of financing a wedding just doesn't seem plausible. "Still," she says, "every time I look at him, whether he knows it or not, I get those butterflies. The feeling tends to take over my whole body, and I can't help but to smile."

Find out whether or not these young lovebirds receive the gift of a lifetime, - a dream wedding that will leave both of their heart's smiling for eternity.

Indulge Your Senses with Indulge Catering Company

Indulge Catering has generously donated their amazing contemporary catering services to our "Who Wants to Win a Wedding?" nuptials on September 12th, 2009. Indulge chefs perfectly blend the art of gourmet cooking with a sense of professionalism and attention to detail. Their goal is to "create the reception of your dreams." Indulge is also sensitive to the wishes of the bride and groom and seeks a "careful representation of the relationship between the two" in the food they prepare, arrange, and serve.

We are excited to welcome San Diego's Indulge Catering on board as a participating sponsor in our "Who Wants to Win a Wedding?" contest,and we look forward to presenting the gift of a dream wedding to one lucky couple on Saturday, May 30th, at the Hidden Valley's Intimate Bridal Faire and Open House. See you then!

Couple #21 - Love On a Rainy Day

Rain's month could not have been any worse. She got laid off and was struggling to find new work, her roommate moved out, and then her beloved Chihuahua ran out the front door and underneath the wheels of a speeding motorist. Her life was quickly becoming a bad country song gone worse. Fortunately Justin, a skinny rocker dude with tattoos and long black hair, walked out his sister's front door and into Rain's life.

Justin was her neighbor's brother and, after an evening spent outside talking for hours, he reminded Rain of "how beautiful life can be and how full of promise a new day is." Now, the happy couple lives together with Squid, a Chihuahua who they rescued and have nursed back to health. Meanwhile, Rain has landed her dream job and her and Justin can still talk for hours. As she says, "it may sound corny, but he is my best friend."

The "Who Wants to Win a Wedding Contest" and an Intimate Bridal Faire

The "Who Wants to Win a Wedding?" contest is winding down. In the posts that follow, you will find the profiles of twenty couples who have entered our dream wedding giveaway. From San Diego to Los Angeles, from Montana to Arizona, and from Rhode Island to Massachusetts, their love stories are diverse and filled with tales of hope, loss, perseverance, and redemption. Thus, we are going to need your help in deciding which couple to award a 70-person wedding to on September 12th, 2009.

We will be announcing the winners of our contest at a Bridal Faire, held at the Hidden Valley on Saturday, May 30th, from noon - 4pm. So, let us know your thoughts before then. Find the love story that speaks the most to you and tell us why you think this couple should win our contest by clicking on the 'Comments' link at the end of the posting. Otherwise, we look forward to seeing you at the Hidden Valley on May 30th. Good luck to all our couples. Read on!!!

Couple #20 - A Match Made in a Massage Parlor Heaven

Jenny and Jason are both massage therapists who met while co-working at a spa. At that time, Jenny was married and Jason was torturing himself by chasing other women. After three years of watching Jason cycle through romances, Jenny became a divorcee. During one fateful night at work, these two wandering souls shared a conversation that seemed to cover eveything all at once. As Jenny says, "I felt more connected to him than I had to another person in years." Jenny marked her return to the dating scene, after a 10-year hiatus, by calling Jason up and asking him out, but he turned her down! Apparently, he had band practice that night and, he was so discombobulated from the offer, he forgot to ask for a raincheck. Kicking himself over a lost opportunity, Jason emailed Jenny a few days later and asked her out this time. Upon receiving his email, Jenny became giddy like a teenager. She jumped up and down around her apartment. These two soulmates, who fit together like jig-saw puzzle pieces, have been together ever since.
Unfortunately, the collapse of the economy took with it a nest egg that was intended to be used for their wedding nuptials. The setback took the wind right out of this couple and they have been floundering for ways to create the wedding they envision since. They're keeping their fingers crossed that the Hidden Valley's "Who Wants to Win a Wedding?" contest will be the answer they've been seeking.
Good luck to Jason and Jenny our "Who Wants to Win a Wedding?" couple #20!

Hear the Lion ROar

Eagle Lion Video has donated their services to our "Who Wants to Win a Wedding?" contest. On September 12th, Bob Wright will be on hand to film the wedding ceremony and reception. He is also providing the lucky bride and groom with three (3) fully-edited DVD copies. A huge "Thank you!" to Bob Wright and Eagle Lion Video!

So Belle? So Delicious, and Thoughtful too.

So Belle Chocolates & Favors For All Occasions has generously donated their exquisite chocolate favors to our "Who Wants to Win a Wedding?" contest winners. One lucky bride and groom will sure leave an everlasting impression on their September 12th guests with So Belle's distinct edible creations.
Thanks, So Belle!

Couple #19 - Ignoring the Crowd, and Listening to the Heart

Kirsten was a cheerleader and Alexander was just a silly boy that all the girls on the squad would look at and say, "Ewww...look at the geek!" Even though Kirsten pretended to agree with the viewpoints of her peers, she secretly harbored a longing to squeeze, hug, and kiss, Alex. All it took was one little love note, slipped to Alex during class, and this young couple has been working through the ebb and flow of life together ever since. Although the past five years have been wrought with emotional trauma, as well as the tension and stress that racial and religious divides can create, Kirsten and Alex have found in each other the strength to cope, relate, and push forward. They are now studying for degrees, in Human Services for her and Forensic Computers for him. Winning this contest would provide for the best day of their lives, - the day when Kirsten and Alex's hands are united in marriage. As Kirsten says, "I want to be the first one he wakes up to, and the one who, when he says me naked on the toilet he doesn't run and scream for his life."

Couple #18 - Pepe le Peu's Persistence Finally Pays Off

Finally, after two years of nagging her to go out on a date with him, Eric got Marie to relent. The friends of two years only dated for a little while before they broke up due to vast differences in their personal lives. Eric was heart broken. He was so love sick that crying became habitual and hunger never seemed to set in. Nonetheless, he made a personal resolve, - he would take every step neccessary to recapture the love of his life. And, he did! The happy couple have been inseperable since last August. On Valentine's Day, Eric proposed and Marie said "yes." In regards to their love story, Eric says "ours is a testament to a spirit who refuses to be told that something cannot be done." He also writes, "winning this contest would be the most incredible conclusion to this extraordinary courtship. My reward is to have the love of my life in marriage, and winning this would only add to this majestic covenant."

Good luck to couple #18!

Inviting Guests with Style

STS Invitations has donated the invitations to our lucky bride and groom for their up and coming September 12th nuptials at the Hidden Valley Retreat and Spa. STS offers an array of stylized invitations, from classical to whimsical, at a reasonable price. We are pleased to welcome this local company on board as one of our "Who Wants to Win a Wedding?" participating vendors.

The Art of Beauty at its Finest

Melanie Littlewood, of Hair & Makeup Artistry by Melanie, is donating her Hair and Makeup services to our lucky bride on the morning of her September 12th nuptials. Melanie will also be on hand at our Bridal Faire on Saturday, May 30th. Melanie is a licensed cosmetologist who works as a makeup and grooming freelance artist. Her work has been displayed in print, on runways, and in TV commericals. Welcome, Melanie! And, thank you for your kind and generous donation.

Couple #17 - If the Heart Leads the Soulmate Will Follow

Rosella and Rudy met when they both volunteered for a church program in February of '07. Rudy says that "Rosella's pretty face hasn't left my mind since the moment when I first laid eyes on her." Although Rosella was initially intrigued by Rudy's
6'6" stature, she wasn't as sure. In a bold, early move, Rudy asked a mutual friend for Rosella's number and called to ask her out on a lunch date. However, after their second date, Rosella tried to tell Rudy that she just didn't think they were a good match. Undeterred, Rudy asked Rosella out again. His persistence eventually broke though her tough walls, and this happy couple hasn't stopped dating since. Together, they are currently taking a pre-marital class and are striving daily to "grow closer and to strengthen our walk with Christ." Rudy writes that he and Rosella want to "be an example of how marriage is more than just a life-long commitment; it is a gift from god that should be treasured for life."

Find out whether or not Rudy and Rosella are our contest winners at our Bridal Faire on Saturday, May 30th from noon - 4pm up at our glorious hillside paradise.

Couple #16 - Love Lost, Love Found

These May days are springing past us. Memorial day will soon be here, bringing with it another summer as well as the winners of our "Who Wants to Win a Wedding?" contest. On May 30th, we will announce our lucky contest winners at a Bridal Faire up at the Hidden Valley, from noon - 4pm. Until then, we have more exciting news to report as the contestant entries and the participating vendors keep rolling in.

Now introducing couple #16, - Tammy and Mark of Phoenix, Arizona.

Tammy's world seemed to be falling apart all around her. She had just relocated herself, and her two children, to Phoenix when she discovered that her fiance was not the man she had been led to believe he was. Devastated and distraught, she packed her, and her children's, belongings and moved out. In need of moving assistance, her cousin and his friend volunteered to help. It was then when Mark, a patient and caring man, walked into her life. He hasn't left her side since.
Tammy is hoping that winning this contest will be her thanks to Mark for all that he has done for her and her children since that fateful day.

Couple #15 - A Soldier's Return and a Couple's Love Reignited

As a single mom, Jen was won over by her now husband when, after years of friendship, he finally asked her out on a real date. That night, he backed Jen's new car into a fence and then stole a kiss from her in order to soothe her panic and frustration. Ever since, he has been a loyal and affectionate partner who has taken care of not just Jen but her son, too.
Together, this happy couple was first married during a tiny, cheap, and rushed, wedding over ten years ago. Now, Jen is eagerly awaiting her husband's return home from his deployment overseas. She is hoping to renew their vows with a ceremony at the Hidden Valley. Winning the "Who Wants to Win a Wedding?" contest would be a "truly amazing way to reignite our love for each other," she says.

Find out whether or not this couple, or the other fourteen couples profiled, wins our dream wedding giveaway at a Bridal Faire and Open House held at the Hidden Valley on May 30th, 2009, from noon-4pm.
Mark your calendars, as the date will soon be upon us!

Couple #14 - Cupids Arrow Finally Strikes These Two College Acquaintances

Zach and Lauren first met in Calculus class during the fall of '04 at the University of Missouri-Columbia. At the time, they were both in serious relationships with other people, thus Cupid had to take a raincheck. Years later, as college graduates and business professionals, the arrow struck.

The young people were re-introduced, through friends of friends, and they eventually went out on their first date. It was a Cardinals game and, somehow, Lauren's aunt managed to tag along for the ride. Nonetheless, Zach and Lauren hit if off and began dating soon thereafter.

One night, during a BBQ at his place, Zach hit the ball far out of the ballpark when he got down on one knee and seranaded Lauren with Garth Brooks' song "Shameless." True to form, Zach performed it in front of all of his assembled dinner guests and friends.

During the winter of '06, Zach fell deathly ill with a Staph infection. Lauren had to skip out on numerous holiday parties and family events in order to be at Zach's bedside in the hospital. It was then when she realized how much her and Zach were meant for each other. Ever since, she says, "we have known that we wanted to spend the rest of our lives together, and that we would do anything for each other."

Lucky Couple #13 - Happiness Found At the End of One Rainbow

Vanessa and Daniel met in Boston in 2005. At the time, Vanessa was a distraught single mother of a son who was suffering with severe asthma. Vanessa and her son spent almost a year of stressful time at the Children's Hospital, where Daniel was a security officer. Daniel was kind, open-hearted, and sympathetic. He always offered a gentle smile and a warm hello, even though Vanessa continually snubbed him and his offerings. However, after Vanessa's son had healed and been allowed to return home, Vanessa received an email from Daniel.
He began to charm the lovely lady through the world wide web. After months of casual conversations, this sweet couple finally moved their relationship outside. They started dating officially, but Daniel didn't just want Vanessa, he told her. Instead, he said that he wanted "the whole package." This developing family of three then began spending time together. And, now, Vanessa wants to give Daniel the perfect wedding because, she says, "Daniel is my bestfriend, and I want to spend all of eternity with him."

Couple #12 - A Long-Winded Romance

Lucky and Laurie first met in 1982 in Kona, Hawaii. They were both working in the hospitality industry while leading the lives of a musician and an outdoors enthusiast. After quickly hitting it off, Laurie soon found herself taking care of Lucky's 10-year-old son as well as his 70-year-old mother. Next thing she knew, ten years had elapsed, two more children were born, and then the young couple split up for seven years.
However, 1999 reunited their paths. Laurie moved back to the mainland, and back in with Lucky. These two star-crossed lovers finished raising their sons together. Jacob is now in the USMC, and Zachary is completing med school. Meanwhile, their parents have yet to marry. The "Who Wants to Win a Wedding?" Contest is the perfect opportunity for Lucky and Laurie to, finally, pronounce their undying love for one another in the presence of their two beautiful sons, and other close friends and loved ones.

"Vote" On Your Favorite Love Story

In search of the perfect couple to give a 70-person dream wedding to on
September 12th, 2009, at the Hidden Valley, we have been profiling our
contestants on this blog. Simply scroll through the pages below to read
about how they met and then click on the 'Comments' link to tell us why you think they should win.

On May 30th, from noon - 4pm we will be announcing our dream wedding giveaway
winners at a Bridal Faire on our historic property. So, keep tuning, in,
subscibe, and tell us what you think!

Couple #11 - Videogames and a Non-Virtual Love

Chelsea and Nathaniel met during their freshman year of college. One day, Nathaniel popped his head outside of his bedroom door just as Chelsea was strolling by. He introduced himself and then asked her to join him for some video game playing. Although Chelsea said that she might, she never showed up for a game and Nathaniel spent a whole night in waiting.
Months later, the dorm neighbors ran into each other again at the cafeteria. This time, Nathaniel pretended not to know the girl whose eyes made him cower. Feeling snubbed, Chelsea stomped off and then proceeded to shoot dirty looks at the boy feigning forgetfulness. Finally, Nathaniel grew weary of the game of love that he and Chelsea had been dancing around for months. He went up to her and re-introduced himself. "Yeah," Chelsea responded, "we've met."
"So, if I know you and you know me, then maybe you could stop glaring at me every time we see each other," Nathaniel purred.
Now, the happy couple are college graduates (they have the same degree no less!) who have realized that they are perfect together. They have settled in San Diego, where Nathaniel proposed and where Chelsea plays video games.

Music the Only Way We Like It

Music As You Like It of San Diego will be providing all of the music and entertainment needs for our September 12th nuptials. From a live harpist for the ceremony to a tuxedoed DJ for the reception, Music As You Like It provides a diverse array of sounds and tunes to accomodate the desires of any bride, or event.

Couple #10 - Fate

Justin and Kelly spent their teenage years growing through the turbulence of adolesence at the same high school. Although they were only one year apart in school, they did not officially meet until they had both moved away to Arizona. Seven years ago, they were both recovering from the loss of a serious relationship when fate brought them to each other's doors. Since then, they have been inseparable. Kelly works for a national bank while Justin stays busy in the hospitality industry. At home, they pour their love and attention into their two Chuhuahuas. Unfortunately, the real estate bust saw their home equity crumble in two years. A small ceremony, amongst her closest family members and friends, is all that Kelly wishes for. She is hoping that the Hidden Valley Retreat and Spa's "Who Wants to Win a Wedding?" contest will turn her dream into a reality.

Couple #9 - Two Soldiers and One Proposal

Zeolah and Alex are two marines who were stationed in Japan in 2004 when they met.
Slowly, during deployments and training exercises, these two service members warmed up to each other. One day, Zeolah became violently ill. Alex brought her miso soup and pudding beacuse he knew that it was the only food she could stomach. It was this sweet, simple action which convinced Zeolah that he was the man for her. Upon his return from a deployment to Korea, Alex fell to one knee and proposed.
The excited couple had a bittersweet ceremony before a justice of the peace in Okinawa. Zeolah cried that day not just because she was happy, but because she missed the presence of her mother, father, and other close family members. As we all know, there is nothing better than celebrating the milestone memory of a marriage with your closest family and friends. This is what Zeolah is hoping for, - the chance to celebrate her's and Alex's love for each other with their family.

Kellerman Photography, - Escondido's Best

The Hidden Valley Retreat and Spa is ecstatic to introduce Michael and Cheryl Kellerman, of Escondido's Kellerman Photography as our "Who Wants to Win a Wedding?" contest photographer.
This Escondido couple has been successfully capturing San Diego weddings for almost two decades now. They are donating their talent, artistic eye, and services, to our lucky contest winners who will be wed on September 12th, 2009, at our 11-acre estate.

Bridal Faire and Open House at the Hidden Valley

On Saturday, May 30th, from noon - 4pm, the Hidden Valley will be hosting a Bridal Faire and Open House on our historic property in Escondido. All San Diego brides are welcome to enjoy an intimate afternoon of getting to know local wedding planners, officiants, musicians, caterers, and more. The Hidden Valley will also be announcing the winner of its "Who Wants to Win a Wedding?" contest during this event. All contest entrants must be present to claim their prizes. One lucky couple will receive a free 70-person wedding to be held on our lovely estate on September 12th, 2009.

Come on over, and enjoy the sights and sounds of our hillside paradise!
Call us at (619) 239-7700 if you have any questions, need directions, or etc.
See you then!

Couple #8 - A Pizza and a $20 Tip

Bonnie worked at a local pizzeria where Michael and his family often came in. Although the chemistry between these two was instantaneous, their blossoming relationship only consisted of sweet flirtations and innocent smiles for years. They were, after all, only high school students, - young, naive, and with a big, wide open future ahead of themselves. Last year, after three years of patient waiting, the sparks flew.
While working at the pizzeria, Bonnie became engaged in the friendly banter of Michael's family. She found herself, along with Michael's mother, chasing Michael into the restroom, where they tickled and pinched him until he was squealing like a little boy.
Since then, it has pretty much been an open and shut case. Girl meets boy. Girl chases boy into bathroom. Boy proposes to girl. Love's tales continues...

Couple #7 - Love At First Sight (on the Flight Concourse)

Jeff's flight was delayed. While perusing the airport concourse, he noticed a cute brunette wearing pigtails and a pink shirt. He just had to go talk to her. Jen was friendly, and cautious. She shared a slice of her pizza with Jeff but she refused to give him her phone number. Unsatisfied with only giving her his number, and afraid that he was being fed the line that she would call, Jeff acted quickly and decisively. In a quick moment, he offered her his hand while managing to slip a ring off of her finger and into his pocket. "To get it back, all you have to do is call," he cajoled. And, as he says, "the rest is history."

Couple #6 - Love Rushes In

Angelique and Justin met four years ago over the world wide web (at myspace, no less!) and have never been a part since. At the time, Angelique was a single mother looking for a casual friendship, but Justin rushed in, and swept her right off of her feet. From the get go, he has also been the only father her son has ever known. Now, the tight knit clan has added another member to their growing tribe, a daugther, and they are hoping to celebrate their good fortune with a dream wedding at our historic ranch. Let's hear it for Angelique and Justin!

"Who Wants to Win a Wedding?" Contest Update

There is only one month left to enter our dream wedding giveaway contest.
We are looking for one lucky couple to give a 70-person wedding to. The late summer nuptials will be held on the historic grounds of our lovely 11-acre hillside paradise, known as the Hidden Valley, on September 12th, 2009.

To enter, simply send us your name, e-mail address, phone number, a photograph, and 500-words (or less) as to how you met and why you should win, to
weddingcontest@hiddenvalleyspa.com.

On May 30th, 2009, we will be announcing the winners at a Bridal Faire/Open House at Hidden Valley, from noon - 4pm. All winners must be present to be awarded their prizes, so mark your calendars!

For all of you vendors out there, if you would like to be included in this exciting promotion then please contact our office directly at (619) 239-7700.

Couple #5 - This Recession Slashes One Bride's Dreams

Randi and James, of Gold Canyon, Arizona, were to have celebrated
their wedding nuptials last September. With a ring on her finger, a
dress in the closet, and guests flown in from back east, the
excited couple had to, regrettably, cancel their big day. The country's
recession had come home to roost, and these two soul mates, and best friends,
were left devastated and heart broken.

They are hoping to recapture the lost moments by winning our dream wedding giveaway.

Build Your Own Bird House, - A Gift from Us at Hidden Valley on This Earth Day

Spring has sprung here in southern California and at the Hidden Valley. Although we've been busily building a 12' x 14' pergola for our up and coming "Who Wants to Win a Wedding?" nuptials, we spent the late winter crafting, painting, and then placing numerous, wood Bird Houses around our 11-acre property.

Today, it is absolutely lovely to amble around the historic ranch while breathing in the verdant valley views and soaking in the early morning antics of our neighbors, - a verbose bunch that includes doves, crows, sparrows, woodpeckers, thrushes, and even some birds of prey.

In honor of this Earth day, we thought we'd share some simple bird house making designs with you. It is important to remember that birds make their own choices, so don't be surprised if you find tenants you never expected in a
house you intended for someone else. Also,all the birds care about is their safety and the right dimensions: box heighth, depth and floor, diameter of entrance hole, and heighth of hole above the box floor. In other words, how elaborate you make your bird house depends on your own personal sense of aesthetics.

Below are some tables that refer to various bird sizes and needs:
Species Box Box Entrance Entrance Placement
Floor" Heighth" Heighth" Diameter" Heighth'

American
Robin* 7x8 8 --- --- 6-15
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Eastern &
Western
Bluebird 5x5 8-12 6-10 1-1/2 4-6
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Mountain
Bluebird 5x5 8-12 6-10 1-1/2 4-6
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Chickadees 4x4 8-10 6-8 1-1/8 4-15
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Titmice 4x4 10-12 6-10 1-1/4 5-15
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Ash-throated
Flycatcher 6x6 8-12 6-10 1-1/2 5-15



When it comes to building your birdhouse, you will also want to keep in mind:
Ventilation, Drainage, Entrance Hole, Accessibility, and Limiting Predator Access.
For more information on these as well as building a bird house for other types of birds, please see
http://www.talewins.com/birds/birdhouse.pdf

Most importantly, we hope that you will take the time to enjoy the bounty that this planet offers up not just today, but everyday. We hope you'll always take a moment to: smell the roses, look up and at the cloud formations in the sky above, listen to the wind as it rustles through the trees, and revel in the steady hum of bees pollinating flowers, and life continuing, changing, growing, dying, and being born once again, anew.

Couple #4 - A Dancing Queen Meets Her King

Next up...

Michelle and Jesus, of San Diego, California.

This local couple just celebrated 6 happy years together.
As avid groovers, they met on a dancefloor and
haven't stopped dancing since. Jesus laments the
fact that he can't provide the "princess
wedding" Michelle deserves, while Michelle hopes
that winning this contest will "finally take our
relationship to the next level since we know we want
to be together forever."

Good luck to couple #4!

Couple #3 - Love Discovered on the Mats

Up next in the pursuit for the coveted 70-person wedding award is...

Sarah and Johnathon of Casa Grande, Arizona

These two lovebirds met on their high school's wrestling team.
Sarah was the only girl on the team, while Johnathon was the only
boy willing to practice with her. Sarah went on to pin the
biggest guy on an opposing team and has since known that, with Johnathan
by her side helping and encouraging her, she can take on anything.
Young, and in love, this couple hopes to serve others in many ways.
Sarah is studying nursing and massage while Johnathon is working
towards a degree in nutrition.
Good luck to couple #3!

Spring: What a Beautiful Time for a Wedding

It's Spring and what a more beautiful time for a wedding. Every
bride (and groom) wants her (and his) day to be fabulous. Weddings
can cost a fortune. The average wedding in the United States costs
over $20,000 and doesn't include the rings or honeymoon.

Wedding favors don't have to be expensive and can still be a lovely
remembrance of your special day. Here are a few ideas.

Place a package of flower seeds in a cellophane bag. Tie with curly
ribbon in your wedding colors and add a card that's says "Watch Our
Love Grow" with your names and date of the wedding. Starting several
pots of the flowers is a nice touch and adds some color to the
favor table as well.

Candles are not expensive. Visit the dollar store or Goodwill store
and buy an assortment of wine glasses, they don't have to match.
Tie a curly ribbon around the stem of the glass with a card that
says "Light Up Love" with your names and date of the wedding. Place
a votive candle in the wine glass. You can stabilize the candle with
just a dab of hot glue.

Candy kisses can be placed in the wine glass. Covered with plastic
wrap and then tied to the stem with curly ribbon so they don't fall
out.

One very personal touch takes a little time and effort but not a lot
of money. Have a friend with a digital camera follow the bride and
groom as they greet each guest and snap a photo. Or have the
amateur photographer snap each guest with the bride and groom as
the guest goes down the receiving line. The photos are then printed
at the reception and pinned to a cloth covered bulletin board.
As each guest leaves they take their photo with them.

Hope these ideas helped.

(From our friend)
Dee Power
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Grandma's Apple Pie: A Recipe for Your Next Visit to Hidden Valley

This was grandmum's recipe and it has won us numerous awards in
local competitions. Enjoy! (Now, start baking.)

PREP TIME 30 Min
COOK TIME 1 Hr
READY IN 1 Hr 30 Min
Original recipe yield 1 - 9 inch pie


INGREDIENTS (Nutrition)
1 recipe pastry for a 9 inch double crust pie
1/2 cup unsalted butter
3 tablespoons all-purpose flour
1/4 cup water
1/2 cup white sugar
1/2 cup packed brown sugar
8 Granny Smith apples - peeled, cored and sliced


DIRECTIONS
Preheat oven to 425 degrees F (220 degrees C). Melt the butter in a saucepan. Stir in flour to form a paste. Add water, white sugar and brown sugar, and bring to a boil. Reduce temperature and let simmer.
Place the bottom crust in your pan. Fill with apples, mounded slightly. Cover with a lattice work of crust. Gently pour the sugar and butter liquid over the crust. Pour slowly so that it does not run off.
Bake 15 minutes in the preheated oven. Reduce the temperature to 350 degrees F (175 degrees C). Continue baking for 35 to 45 minutes, until apples are soft.

FOOTNOTE
Baking pie is a rather straightforward technique, but a few tips can only help to make your pies come out looking and tasting perfect!

We Just Couldn't Wait...to Introduce the Next "Who Wants to Win a Wedding?" Contest Couple

Since some of you have already been asking (and voting) for them,
here they are...

Ariana and Matt of San Diego, California.

These high-school sweethearts have been working at their blossoming love for nine years now! (WOW!) They are focused on their careers, each other, and on making this planet a better place for everyone. Matt cares about the environment and is a familiar face among San Diego city parks, while Ariana loves kids and is working to become a family and child advocate. They are hoping to put the icing on the cake with a wedding at the Hidden Valley.

Finding the Silver Lining in a Black Cloud

With all the dismal news pouring out of every talking head these days, we are certainly hard pressed to find any clouds that aren’t bleak. However, if we flip this economic downturn on its head, we may be pleasantly surprised with what we do discover. Now that the exotic trip to Cancun and the family adventure to Disney World are no longer a viable option, we are remembering what “family + vacation” feels like.
Gone are the days of cramped coach seating on a domestic airline; of fighting over who is going to go where and for how long; and of pinching the pennies while envying what the person next door has. Gone are the days of greedy consumption and over-the-top opulence. Gone are the distraction, the arguing, and the needless wanting. What remains is each other and the intimate moments that we spend together, in the here and now, making those memories that last a lifetime. After all, it is the laughter and the tears that cost very little in the making but mean everything in the long run.



At the Hidden Valley, we plan family reunions all the time. The trend that we are noticing today, as a result of this new “great depression,” is that what really counts is the uninterrupted time spent together in a private setting. At the Hidden Valley, guests have exclusive use of the entire 11-acre property for the duration of their rental period. During this time, they can take long walks together; bathe in the numerous bubbling stone fountains dotting the property; or, they can gather fruit from the organic orchard and then bake grandma’s special homemade pie in the privacy of a full kitchen.
For, it is never too late to stop discounting simplicity, and to remember what life was like before all of the iPods, X-Boxes, cell phones, and social media. It is never too late to grab a guitar, gather around a blazing bonfire, and share S’mores, jingles, and more. It is never too late to rewrite the story of your family and how you connect, outside of Facebook, myspace, Twitters, and Tweets. Now is the time to reclaim your silver lining. What are you waiting for?

"Who Wants to Win a Wedding?" - This Couple Does

The countdown has begun.
On Saturday, May 30th, 2009, the Hidden Valley Retreat and Spa will announce the lucky winners of its "Who Wants to Win a Wedding?" Contest.
One lucky couple will receive a 70-person dream wedding to be held on our historic property on September 12th, 2009.
In anticipation of what is to come, we will randomly be posting a short blurb about couples who have entered our contest.
You are encouraged to vote for your favorite couple by clicking on the "Comments" link at the end of this posting. Simply tell us why YOU think the profiled couple should win. But, no worries, this isn't American Idol and, utlimately, it is us at Hidden Valley who are choosing the winners. So, stay tuned, start subscribing, and read on to this week's couple...

Introducing....


Julie and Rodney of San Diego, California.
It must be fate for these star crossed lovers whose paths first crossed as sweet, innocent children. This random meeting became a consistent happening as they continued to grow through adolescence. Although the attraction was mutual and immediate, nothing more became of their young, developing romance. That is until 2007, when destiny bumped them into each other once again. This time around, however, the timing has been nothing but right. On January 30th, 2009, Rodney got down on bended knee and this local couple has known that it was meant to be from the very beginning.

Experience Panchakarma with the Healing Gardens and the Hidden Valley

The Hidden Valley is very excited to work with the Healing Gardens, of Costa Mesa, California, in the deliverance of Panchakarma retreats. Stephen and Fiona Markowitz believe that this partnership will continue to foster Dr. Bernard Jensen's initial dream, - which was to teach others about a healthy lifestyle and natural healing techniques at his beloved Hidden Valley. The Panchakarma 5-day workshop will be led by a team of trained and talented Ayurvedic healers. Relax and unwind amidst the nature spa's peace and tranquility with sunrise yoga, natural foods, personalized therapies, live music chanting, meditation, and more. For more info on Ayurveda and Panchakarma, please visit: thehealingardens.com.
We look forward to spending the weekend with you in rest and rejuvenation!

“Going Green” – What Does It Mean, Especially in Regards to Your Wedding?

When one of my dearest friends from college, a self-proclaimed “environmentalist,” informed me that she was planning a green wedding, I had no clue what she was referring to.
I assumed that what she meant was that she was going to recycle the wedding gift paper, along with the beer and champagne bottles, the day after her festive event. However, over the course of her year long planning process, I was consistently inspired by the depth of committment for the planet that both her and her fiancé embodied. Their story, just like yours, began with the proposal.

After two, happy years together, Joe got down on bended knee and proposed to Becca with a recycled pendant made by a local jeweler. As I have since learned, due to the toxic nature of strip-mining, investing in new rings is simply not a viable option for the Earth. Fortunately, there are plenty of eco-friendly options out there for those of you who do not want to forgo the traditional wedding band. For example, greenKarat (greenKarat.com) uses post-consumer gold and silver to craft new designs by hand, while Touch Wood Rings (touchwoodrings.com) makes handcrafted wooden rings specifically for you that will “delight your fingers as well as your soul.”

High on the excitement of “Yes,” the excited couple got busy with the nitty-gritty, down-and-dirty of wedding planning. The couple knew that they wanted to celebrate their life marker with a late summer Hemlock ceremony and down-home, country reception on the 110-acre property that Joe’s family has resided on for a century and where they, along with Joe’s parents, currently live. (Joe’s sister and her family live across the street, and camping on the land was an accommodation option for the invited nature enthusiasts.)

In order to announce the big news, send out a “Save the Date,” and keep wedding guests informed of plans, activities, changes, and more, Becca and Joe created a blogspot (www.blogspot.com). Aside from being informational, it was fun to witness the couple’s march towards their destiny, - especially since I lived 3,000 miles away.
In lieu of gifts, the couple asked for contributions to be made towards the sustainable home they are building on the family homestead over the next two to three years. Although the lovely couple simply stated that “gifts were not essential,” they also politely posted the names and websites of two companies, one a local potter and the other a local (and sustainable) home furnishings store, for those who were so inclined to purchase something from a registry.

Their 100% potable invitations arrived via snail mail according to custom (three months in advance). Both the invitation and envelope were made of post-consumer waste and had North American Wildflower seeds encased in them. Again, the couple posted suggestions as to what to do with the invitations: “ If you don't want to plant them at home, feel free to bring your invitation to our wedding. We will have a nice area (near our future house) where you can plant them in our yard so Joe and I can watch our love bloom year after year!” You can follow this link for more tips on recycled, tree free invitations:
www.formal-invitations.com/recycled-treefree-paper.html.

Here is where the soon-to-be-married couple became ambitious: the dedicated gardeners vowed to grow all of the food for their own wedding! From the cold-hardy veggies of garlic, snap peas, spinach and onions, to the tomatoes, melons, squash, and leeks that require a large bed, the diligent couple literally spent the year leading up to their wedding “sowing the seeds of love.”

When summer arrived, Joe built both the natural altar where the lovebirds were to speak their eternal vows as well as the outdoor barbeque where the locally raised hens were to be skewered. The fruits and vegetables were harvested, and the week leading up to the big event was spent together in the kitchen, - preparing the food for a new, growing tribe. As the blog stated, everyone was not just welcomed but needed. For a bachelorette party, Becca gathered her girlfriends around her and together they all baked her wedding pies. (Since, according to Becca, “cake is overrated.”)

For the ceremony, Joe wore the Scottish kilt that he has kept in his closet for years while Becca invested in an organic cotton, white sundress. For the fashion forward, there are plenty of eco-friendly, designer wedding dresses abound. Look for natural fibers, such as silk, hemp, and even bamboo, to lighten your carbon footprint. Conscious Elegance (consciouselegance.com) and Thread Head Creations (threadheadcreations.com) both offer a wide selection of gowns (made in the UK). For more help searching for the dress that you have spent your life dreaming of, check out this “Crafting a Green World” blog: http://craftingagreenworld.com/2008/05/30/eco-bridal-diy-upcycle-or-handcraft-your-wedding-dress/.

For an event that is known for offsetting 14.5 tons of CO2, Becca and Joe’s simple yet thoughtful nuptials produced only ONE bag of trash. Although this is an extreme example of one highly motivated couple, you too can set goals for treading lightly on this planet, -the only home that we all truly share together. The key is to agree upon a “going green” value with your partner and then to discuss and brainstorm the unique ways that the two of you can do this together, such as:
• using one site for both your ceremony and reception;
• choosing an outdoor venue that does not need decorations;
• relying on local transportation and demanding (yes, demanding, after all you are the bride and this is expected of you, to some degree) that your guests carpool together;
• use only locally grown flowers;
• in lieu of gifts, have your guests make donations in your names to environmental or humanitarian organizations;
• hire an a cappella group that does not require amps or a blaring sound system;
• or make your own, individualized outfits.

What the current economic crisis, and other world events, are teaching us is that it is time to rethink and reinvent some of our time honored traditions. Forgot the fairy tales that you were told growing up and think about what you want. Close your eyes, take a deep breath, and ask yourself: “What really makes me happy?” I think you will be hard pressed to discover visions of a $5,000 gown, a 6-tiered cake, and a 250-person party.
Rather, I believe that you will arrive at an answer that speaks of being surrounded by those you love, and those who love you.

After all, it isn’t a fantasy that you really want. It is a moment to breathe, to reconnect to life outside of the must do’s and gotta have’s, and to rediscover the connections that brought all of you together in the first place.

Own your wedding. Make it yours. Not Becca’s and Joe’s, or Cinderella’s, or Katie Holme’s. And, remember, it never serves anyone to compare your end results, - for there will always be weddings that were both better and worse than yours.

Did you say you’re getting married in Escondido?

With a name that means “hidden” in Spanish, Escondido is a treasure trove waiting to be discovered. The region, located due north of downtown San Diego, occupies a shallow valley ringed by rocky hills. Incorporated in 1888, Escondido is one of the oldest cities in San Diego County. Although Juan Bautista de Anza, a Spanish explorer making his way north in 1776, is credited with its founding, a Native American tribe, known as the San Dieguenos, first arrived into this region over 10,000 years ago.
With yearly average temperatures rarely dropping below 40°F or reaching above 90°F, the temperate clime allows locals and visitors alike to take ample advantage of the region’s cultural, historical, and entertaining amusements. It is here, in Escondido, where there is truly something for every person, of every age.
For the culturally minded, the downtown’s bustling Grand Avenue has experienced a contemporary renaissance of late. The doors of numerous cafes, restaurants, and galleries, such as the Minghei, have recently been opened along this busy, main thoroughfare. In nearby Grape Park, the California Center for the Arts awaits. A 12-acre campus, it features state-of-the-art theaters, a visual arts museum, an educational complex, and a conference center. (www.artcenter.org)
For the history buff, the Escondido History Museum displays the city's original Santa Fe Depot, first library, Victorian house, barn, and blacksmith shop, while the San Pasqual Battlefield commemorates the Mexican American war. The 50-acre State Historical Park boasts a Visitor Center, an amphitheatre, and a half-mile walking trail, all of which pay homage to the bloodiest encounter the American Army fought in order to win California from Mexico.
Hop on board the “Heart of Africa” safari at the world famous Wild Animal Park and take an open air tour around the thirty acre park where animals roam and fly free just like they do in the African Sahara. (www.sandiegozoo.com) If it is a free escape that you are looking for then check out Queen Califia’s Magical Circle. A brilliant mosaic adorned sculpture garden, it is located within the sprawling Kit Carson Park, and is the last major international work by French artist, Niki de Saint Phalle.
Right down the road from our historic ranch sits Lake Wolford, an angler’s dream. Stocked with Rainbow Trout, Channel Catfish, Largemouth Bass, Bluegill, and Crappies, the lake offers inexpensive daily rates and boat rentals. (www.ci.escondido.ca.us)
With half a dozen wineries, two casinos, shopping, golf courses, the Mt. Palomar Observatory, and San Diego’s renowned beaches all within a short drive, Escondido, California is the ideal destination wedding location. And it is just a heart beat away from the thriving city center of San Diego.

"Who Wants to Win a Wedding?"

That's right, folks! We are giving away a 70-person wedding. The nuptials will be held at the Hidden Valley on September 12th, 2009. The bridal party will have exclusive use of the property for the duration of the weekend. Winners will receive a rehearsal dinner on Friday night; an officiated ceremony underneath an outdoor pergola on Saturday afternoon followed by a photo shoot with a local photographer on the property and hors d'ouvres, champagne, and live music, on a romantically lit patio with valley views for your guests; a sit-down dinner in the Event Center with a DJ and dancing afterwards; and then breakfast for a fond farewell on Sunday morning. Plus so much more!

It's an offer that can't be passed up!

Please visit our website http://www.hiddenvalleyspa.com/ to enter.

You will need to submit your name, e-mail address, phone number, a photograph, and a 500-word response on how you met and why you should win. There is no purchase neccssary to enter. All entrants must be 18 years or older and legal U.S. residents.

No Idle Hands Here

Last year, the Hidden Valley's newest owner, Fiona Markowitz, applied her artistic vision to decorating and re-designing all of the bedrooms found within the property's two main facilities. Walls were painted, from the neutral tones of Asian-themed bedrooms to the vibrant pastels found in the Main House's suites, curtains and bedspreads were sewn and hung, and imaginary worlds were brought to life, as is the case in the African Safari Room. A large space that sleeps 10 people in bunk-style beds. A dilapidated barn was refurbished and is now a rustic, but comfortable living space that can accomodate up to 14 overnight guests.

Your Retreat, Reunion, Vacation, or Small Wedding + the Hidden Valley

The Hidden Valley is a reasonable reprieve from these economy blues! Where else can you sleep up to 40 of your closest friends, and relatives, and breathe fresh, country air, dive into an azure pool, and eat from organic fruit trees?
With beginning rates at $1500.oo, which include exclusive use of the entire 11-acre property, the Hidden Valley is an affordable paradise that will inspire in you and your loved ones rejuvenation, readiness, and relaxation.
Call Stephen at (760) 749-3093, or or our office at (619) 239-7700, to book your reservations now.

Firefighter Appreciation Day Held On Our Historic Property

As many of you remember, in October 2007, a firestorm devastated southern California. Valley Center, along with many other communities, was affected. My husband and I had just purchased our dream property and had to helplessly watch as the Witch Creek fire raced through the valley towards our home. Just as the fire was only 10 feet from our house, the firemen arrived and saved us. It was a miracle and we thank our dear friends, the Valley Center Fire Department, for their bravery and for driving into the raging fire to save our dream. They are our local heroes, as I’m sure you will agree.

One year later, we felt it was time to show our gratitude by hosting a fundraiser in their honor. We opened up our property to the community with music, food, education, and fun. The best part was that a sizeable donation was made to the Valley Center Fire Department to use as needed.


We look forward to making a difference in our community again, one of these days soon. We thank all of our local heroes! And we thank you, -thanks for coming out, swaying to the music, and making it a day to remember!

The Legendary Daughter of Dr. Paul C. Bragg Visits The Hidden Valley

On October 6th, 2008, Patricia Bragg, daughter of Dr. Paul C. Bragg the renowned founder of the American Health Movement, visited the Hidden Valley Retreat and Spa. The vivacious and spunky Patricia, who maintains the secret of her year of birth, is a Life Extension Nutritionist. She has authored 22 Self-Health Books, and she has lectured as a health educator internationally. Heralding the march of a dynamic health crusade, Patricia has served as a fitness advisor to world leaders, Hollywood stars, singers, dancers and athletes.

On this autumn day, however, Patricia was found spiritedly traversing the rolling hillsides, private walking trails, and organic gardens of our backyard while reminiscing upon her memories of this sacred landscape that date back to Dr. Bernard Jensen’s tenure.

Spinning wild tales and offering sage advice, Patricia had this to say of her afternoon visit:

“The Hidden Valley is the perfect nature spa to recharge the body, mind, and soul!”

The Hidden Valley Heath Ranch

The Hidden Valley Retreat and Spa, founded in 1960, was originally known as The Hidden Valley Health Ranch. For decades, Dr. Bernard Jensen, a holistic health pioneer who authored over 50 books on human longevity, alternative healing, and natural health, lived his dream of gathering dedicated pupils at his homestead.
Down below, in Hippocrates Circle, the doctor would present lectures on irridology, hydrotherapy, and reflexology. His days were also spent walking around his 13 acres, of winding paths, bubbling stone fountains, and verdant valley views, while he ate directly from over 100 organic fruit trees. Thanks to the work of Dr. Bernard Jensen, as well as that of his neighbor Dr. Paul C. Bragg, by the late 20th century, "Hidden Valley, California" had become synonymous with natural health.
After Dr. Jensen's passing in 2001, at the grand old age of 92, the property fell through the hands of numerous owners. Three years ago, it was purchased by Stephen and Fiona Markowitz, local San Diego entrepreneurs who have owned and operated a national, award-winning event company for the past 20 years. The ambitious couple have been busily renovating and upgrading the facilities, and the land, since.
Unfortunately, the grand re-opening of the Hidden Valley Retreat and Spa, as an event venue for reunions, retreats, vacations, and small weddings, was stalled due to the tragic Witch Creek Fire of 2007.
Now, after countless hours, and resources, spent saving Dr. Bernard Jensen's original dream, the Hidden Valley is once again a thriving land, ready to welcome you back to experience the peace, tranquility, and rejuvenation, that it is famous for.